Wednesday, February 20, 2013

Cuckold massage

Out of curiosity, I Googled "cuckold massage" without really expecting to find anything specific. Imagine my surprise when a search result came back for a website in the UK offering cuckold massages! This amazing service has a Cuckold Corner section of its website dedicated to the interests and concerns of cuckolding couples!

A cuckold massage is a perfect way for couples fantasizing about cuckolding to take their fantasy into reality. How I wish there was such a service like this one close to me for sometimes finding a playmate, especially on the spur of the moment, isn't always easy to do. I'll be sure to pay a visit on our next visit to the UK!

I sent an email to the proprietor of Tranquility Massage and this is what he wrote to me about the cuckold massage he offers:

"I started offering my cuckold massages after being approached by one of my male clients with the question "Would you massage my wife while I watch?"

It occurred to me, that there was probably a niche for couples who were looking to explore their fantasies without going down the route of dating sites, random "Bull" ads and friends.

So, I started to offer my cuckold massage. It's proved to be very popular, I think mainly because the wife does get a full body massage where she can just enjoy being pampered or, should the mood take her, indulge further.

My clients are usually more mature, shy, nervous and concerned about safety, discretion, limits etc and I feel that I consider all of these. It allows the wife to explore and enjoy herself with hubby present, so they both know what is happening, who with etc. I think also that, as they are paying for the "service", they have a sense of "control" over how things go.

Clients are able in advance to let me know how they'd like things to go, what levels of interaction they are happy with etc. Not all massages end in sex. Some are just sensual massages where the wife is brought to orgasm by me in front of hubby, others are more interactive and some couples see me many times, each time being more adventurous as they feel more comfortable.

For some, there are "physical" issues on the part of the husband/partner and they wish to let their wife enjoy a sexual experience without the fear of an affair or rejection etc. I consider this to be a very open-minded and loving approach and always do my best to provide the kind of experience that each couple needs and wants to keep their relationship healthy.

On a flip-side, I do have some couples where the wife watches as hubby receives a sensual massage from me and she can watch him interacting with another man.

All my clients are nice, genuine and friendly people who just want to explore their fantasies. For the majority, a visit to me is their first-time at crossing the very thin line from fantasy to reality....a big step for most that tests emotions, loyalty and their feelings towards each other.


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Saturday, February 9, 2013

Cuckolding and nude yoga

Bringing the sensuality of being naked into the already sensual and spiritual world of yoga seems to me to be a natural thing to do. It is something I practice on my own and I also do this with two men who are lovers. Once a week they will come over, or I will go to them, for some intense yoga that we do in the nude followed by an equally intense sexual encounter.

Yoga is not a cuckolding activity on its own but bringing the practice into your cuckolding can be rewarding and very beneficial.

Wednesday, February 6, 2013


I came to the cuckolding lifestyle late in the game and have now written a book about my conversion and how I live this lifestyle with Michael. What I've found is that the fantasy of cuckolding remains as potent as the reality and the reality of living this lifestyle feeds even more fantasy. It is a heady cocktail with many subtleties and variations.

I didn't expect my book to be read by more than a handful of people so it has been surprising and gratifying that so many women have bought the book and made contact with me to ask questions and discuss how to introduce the subjects to their husbands or boyfriends. My usual answer is to suggest that they give their man my book to read. Following that, an affectionate talk about the hows and whys of the lifestyle is in order.

However, I don't have all the answers and there are times when it seems impossible to pull off a cuckolding evening. Craig's List candidates can be unreliable or perhaps they have too many takes on a given evening. It is understandable that they are in demand given the photos they post in their ads. Going commando and trying to recruit a sexy guy at a bar is fraught with its own problems but we've had great success with it occasionally. Sometimes Michael and I have a good laugh at our washouts and I have to ask, "Who do I have to fuck around here to get fucked?!"

In spite of the obstacles, I love the lifestyle and it always amazes me to realize that the man of my life is as concerned as I am about making sure I find great men to have sex with me. Isn't that the best?