Wednesday, November 16, 2011

Ruined orgasms

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There are so many aspects to cuckolding that there is something for everyone no matter how specialized their preferences. I think Michael and I are pretty straightforward in our approach. Vanilla sex with Michael watching for the most part. Sometimes I give him a taste of humiliation which seems to excite both of us. Sometimes I feel dominating and purposefully push the envelope of what is comfortable for both of us.  At times, I roll into denial with him. We haven't yet ordered a chastity device but I am thinking about getting one for him and would love to hear from readers which devices they prefer and why.

I was watching porn videos and found a compilation of "ruined orgasms" that really excited me. It seems to me that there are many ways to ruin a man's orgasm. The first is to get him to the point of cumming and abandon his penis letting it ejaculate without your touch and insisting that he keep his own hands off. Apparently, this is very frustrating for the male at a moment when he would ordinarily be thrusting harder into a vagina to enhance his orgasm, he gets nothing. Another way to ruin an orgasm is to continue stroking him during his orgasm and continue even after his ejaculation has ended. This can be painful for him offsetting any pleasure the orgasm gave him. The penis becomes quite sensitive and the continued action is most unwelcome. I would love to hear from readers about their ruined pleasures.

I think I will incorporate ruined orgasms into our play as it combines a number of categories at the same time. It is a form of denial, provides humiliation especially when performed in front of another man who just fucked me and is a way of dominating Michael that will provoke displeasure as it happens and fuel hot, erotic flashbacks for the future.

14 comments:

  1. Speaking from experience, there is nothing more frustrating than a ruined orgasm. You are left wanting so much more, but not able to get any satisifaction.

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  2. Hi Caroline (and Michael),

    I can give you advice as far as the chastity device (I have quite a bit of experience). I would choose a "birdlocked". It's safe, clean, and more comfortable than most other models. the plastic is slightly bland, so it doesn't hurt rubbing up against the body, and its discreet.

    I'd be happy to help you out, if you have any questions about chastity or ruined orgasms... there's lots of info on my blog internationalsissyboy.blosgspot.com or you can drop me a line.

    I really enjoy reading about your adventures!

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    1. just got my 1st my girl friend does not like it..thanks for putting out there where to find the information on better cages
      we are on experienceproject.com
      under the name cowboysixshooter
      drop a line our way if you like to help us out in cuckolding

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  3. Ruined orgasms are a powerful reminder of the heirarchy in our relationship. My Mistress gives me so much pleasure as she strokes me to the edge of orgasm, time and again. When she decides it's enough, she pushes me over the top and let's go, watching my cock wave pathetically in the air searching for contact, as my seed drips out uncontrollably. To have that done to a submissive boy in front of another man would be very humiliating indeed.

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  4. I'd like to suggest that a real ruined orgasm is when you stop stroking before orgasm. The cum does not shoot out of the penis - it just oozes out. There is no orgasm. Extremely frustrating milking.

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    1. I agree. I have had several as a woman I once knew preferred I "cum" that way only. It is an amazing feeling...for me a HUGE turn on!

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  5. That is one of the hottest videos I've seen online in a very long time!

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  6. I love this posting. The video is one of the hottest that I have ever seen. The reality of a ruined orgasm to a cuck is erotically enjoyable. I personally enjoy this frustration as it heightens my desire to watch my hotwife satisfied. I appreciate the thought and relevance of all of your posts

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  7. very hot video. something to make the orgasm even less satisfying - don't let the cuck pump his cock and squirt his cum. Make the cuck dribble when he comes. It will be very frustrating and not satisfying at all. He'll be more than happy to lick up his load.

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  8. Hi Caroline & Mickael,
    Sorry to react lately at this post of yours.
    Tease & Denial and Ruined orgasms are my favorite kinky games with hubby. Without doubt, there is some malice and wickedness to treat him like that, when i can get all the complete satisfying orgasms from my lovers, but it does turn me on and make me feel powerful.
    Did you get a chastity device for him. Mine is wearing a "curve".
    Friendly,
    Nathalie

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  9. I love the tease & denial game and, yes, we got Michael a few chastity devices that we rotate!

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  10. where do you find women like you these days!!!!

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  11. As a forced femboy I am not allowed to have normal orgasms anymore and the only way I've been able to squirt for the last three years is through some form of frustrating ruined orgasm. My own mother controls my cocky ever since she caught me sucking my friend off in her heels and lingerie. She loves spanking my balls or cockhead really hard as soon as I start dribbling patheticly.

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