Cuckolding as a lifestyle is puzzling to many because it seems to go against the grain of modern society to have a happily married couple where the man is monogamous and the women is sexually free. Women have told me that it is the ideal fantasy. Men have told me they wish their wives would be interested. Maybe it's time for these men and women to talk to each other and share their fantasies about this subject.
Whether couples adopt cuckolding as fantasy role-play or as the reality of their relationship, it is a highly erotic arrangement that also appeals to the intellect. I have written a book that, I think, speaks to men and women equally and my answer to the question “How do I get my spouse interested in cuckolding?” is: Have them read my book.
Fifty Shades of Grey has shown that women are beginning to take a strong interest in their sexuality on their own terms and it could just be that we are moving away from the stifling constraints of a patriarchal society and towards the creative environment of a matriarchal paradigm. A man who understands this will see that he, too, has a lot to gain from this shift.
If this subject has already captured your imagination, get the book and give it to the one you love. You can find it here: Cuckolding (Amazon) or Cuckolding (CreateSpace) or Cuckolding (Kindle).
Hi Caroline,
ReplyDeleteEm and I had once thought about writing a guide to Cuckolding but have always been preoccupied with other obligations.
I am really enjoying your take on how to go about it. I love the informal structure of your book. As cuckolding really is a couple's personal journey, the usual more rigid structure of a "guide book" wouldn't be as personal as your format is. It's very clear, open, and non-threatening... Well, a little threatening.
I've read about half of it, so far, and have found myself nodding in agreement with everything I've read. I will be recommending it to others.
Best,
scott
Mrs. Kelly's Playhouse
Hi scott,
ReplyDeleteThank you for your kind words! Reading your blog, it strikes me that your personal path is equally interesting and has, on more than one occasion, inspired some games for Michael and me!
I hope you write a book about about your version of the lifestyle that will make it accessible to people who aren't getting the message in the mainstream.
You are quite right in saying that cuckolding is a personal journey. How interesting it is to share with those who understand!
Love,
Caroline