Vintage cuckolding

It is exciting for me to think back to a time when the pill was not in use and yet the urge to cuckold was alive and pressing on couples in the same primal way as it does today. Of course, there were condoms and yet I suspect that many women decided to have sex with their lovers without them for the same reasons that they make the decision to go bareback today.

Without the pill, every stroke of her lover's cock risked pregnancy. What a conflict of need and angst that must have caused for the husband, the wife and her lover!

Mainstream Mandingo party

What I like about this scene is the nervous trepidation of the male and the aroused adventurousness and expectation of the female. A very true scenario, I find.

What I would like to see is this scenario played out wherein he witnesses her having sex with various men followed by the ride home in silence. Later, a frank and honest conversation leading to the hottest lovemaking the couple has ever had. That is how it usually goes.

Where is Adrian Lyne when we need him?

Cuckold jealousy

I am often asked if jealousy is ever an issue with Michael. The simple answer is yes. Jealousy sometimes rears its head and Michael will feel wounded by something I've said or done that gave preference to another man. The truth is that Michael is my man and the slights he feels are often incidental and unintended.

The fact is, though, his jealousy is a part of the cuckolding spice. The angst my actions occasionally cause him add fuel to our primal fire and winning me back is part of the constant ebb and flow of our relationship. The passion factor is very high between Michael and me.

If the ladies would like to experience this on a small scale. Tell your man that you are reading a new book about cuckolding that a girlfriend gave to you and ask if you can read a few passages to him for his reaction. Read to him a few pages and watch for the signs of jealousy. When they begin to manifest, take him in your arms and make love to him and see if his passion isn't greater than that to which you are accustomed.

Let me know how it goes.

http://www.amazon.com/Cuckolding-path-women-resource-couples/dp/1480097349

Cuckolding

Whether you want this as a fantasy role-play or a reality lifestyle with your spouse, give him or her the chance to say yes. Read Cuckolding together and see how big a turn-on it is for your relationship. Husbands and wives often have the same fantasies but never realize it if they don't share them. It may just surprise you!

http://www.amazon.com/Cuckolding-path-women-resource-couples/dp/1480097349

Cuckold's view

Michael has lived this moment and seen this view many times. He tells me that the image excites him beyond description. The recollection of it comes to mind often throughout his day and keeps him wanting me in a most urgent manner. It is a most exquisite torture to take such pleasure from seeing another man’s cock slipping out of your wife’s vagina with all his semen in evidence, but we are primal creatures bent on a primal existence.
http://www.amazon.com/Cuckolding-path-women-resource-couples/dp/1480097349

Caged cumming

After watching me fuck two men at a party, Michael was actually able to cum like this inside his cage. It just goes to show how mentally exciting the whole cuckolding experience can be! Perhaps the primal urge for a man to "reclaim" his woman after she's been fucked by other men is stronger than we suspected. That would explain why post-other men sex with Michael is such a turn-on!

You might want to get involved or just try it as role play with your spouse.

http://www.amazon.com/Cuckolding-path-women-resource-couples/dp/1480097349

Size matters

Size matters in a variety of ways and it isn't just a question of how big it is though for cuckolding role play, that's my usual preference. I think Nina covers the subject very well. Love, Caroline

Cuckolding

“How do I get my spouse interested in cuckolding?” Cuckolding, for those unfamiliar with the concept, is a lifestyle where the man is monogamous and the woman is free to have sex with whomever she likes. It is, perhaps, a matriarchal, woman-centric concept and it has become surprisingly popular with men as well as women. Cuckolding is said to be the fastest growing alternative lifestyle and, whether couples incorporate it as fantasy role-play or as reality, it appeals to women and men on primal, intellectual and sociopolitical levels. It has been called the Intellectual Fetish. This book is intended to give men and women a look at the nuances of this provocative lifestyle which might just be the ultimate woman’s sexual and romantic fantasy.

http://www.amazon.com/Cuckolding-path-women-resource-couples/dp/1480097349
https://www.createspace.com/4024868

Cuckold Talk Part 8

I am having more fun with these cuckolding conversations! Try one out on your husband to see if his "truth-o-meter" says he is excited by the prospect.

Another excerpt from Cuckolding

Another excerpt from Cuckolding by Caroline James:

"We got in the back seat and Michael got behind the wheel in case we needed to leave suddenly for any reason. I wasn’t wearing panties and had spread my legs for him. He pulled down his pants and it was straight fucking. I didn’t need any warm-up and he looked like he could barely keep from cumming. We both needed this and, I have to say, he did a great job of making it last.

When he finally finished, he pulled up his pants and said “Thank you” and left. I’m still recovering in the back seat when I notice we’ve had a spectator. I roll down the window and motion him over. “Did you like that?” I ask him. He did, “Would you like to fuck me, too?” He looks nervously at Michael but I tell him he’s my husband and likes to watch. The next thing you know, he’s on me, in me and pumping away."

Cuckolding on Amazon: 

http://www.amazon.com/Cuckolding-path-women-resource-couples/dp/1480097349

Cuckolding: The answer to unrequited sex?

Cuckolding is far more than sex to me as it defines me as a woman and makes a statement that goes beyond politics, sex, relations and social etiquette. It is existential in nature. It says, "This is the way of the universe."

Sadly, the universe in which  we grew up refuses to see that women are the essence of existence and, worse, that we are the chattel of mankind our function to serve rather than to inspire.

We are sought for our sexual attributes but, all the while, we are reviled for possessing them. What torment it must be for a man who must learn to reconcile those divergent views. Cuckolding offers men a place to be needed and treasured even if the dynamic seems counter-intuitive to the mainstream; a mainstream with a 50% divorce rate and of those marriages that stay intact, what percentage are thriving?

I particularly liked this passage from Unrequited Sex from Freya Watson on Elephant Journal:

"We can gently challenge commonly-accepted views we many not agree with as they appear in conversations around us—the ones that suggest that wanting sex is wrong, that wanting more sex than a partner does is wrong, that seeking satisfaction outside a relationship is wrong, that self-pleasuring is something to be embarrassed about, and so many more. Allowing these to be perpetuated, by staying silent out of a fear of rejection, isn’t of benefit to anyone. By contributing to a greater understanding and awareness around sexuality, we are helping to create a world in which sexuality is expressed more naturally and in which our gift of deep sexuality can be more readily received."

I hope you read the entire article which can be found here:

http://www.elephantjournal.com/2013/04/unrequited-sex/

Caroline Cucks Michael on paper.li

Caroline Cucks Michael is now on paper.li featuring some of my favorite contributors. I hope you like it!

http://paper.li/CarolineCucks/1364674832

Cuckold Talk Part 7

A few more random moments in the cuckolding lifestyle.

A different approach to cuckolding

Yesterday I took a different approach to cuckolding. I am used to the elaborate preparations of finding and making arrangements with a potential playmate on Craig's List or waiting for Saturday night to go to a swing party where Michael can watch me with other men or the hit-or-miss adventures of going to nightclubs in the hopes of finding sex with strangers. I decided to just take what I wanted.

I was at home and a man about ten years younger than I am was replacing some bathroom cabinets. He was handsome and I would definitely have gone with him at a swing party or approached him in a bar, but here he was working in our home. Should I do without?

As he was working, I stood at the master bathroom door and watched. We exchanged a few innocuous comments about the cabinets and the fittings. Nothing flirtatious. Then, without warning I began removing my clothes until I was naked. He saw what I was doing as soon as my T-shirt came off and watched me strip without saying a word. I could tell he was liking the show but was confused about what I was expecting.

I went to him and put my arms around him. "Fuck me," was all I said. We kissed and went into the bedroom where we had sex for almost an hour. We didn't use a condom.

Afterwards, I picked up my iPhone and took a photograph of his cock. Then I took a self-shot of my pussy and texted both photos to Michael.

"What are you doing?" he asked.

"I'm texting our photos to my husband. It's something we're into."

This got him hot again and we had a second round of sex. Funny how the idea of cuckolding is such a turn-on to the other man as much as it is to the husband.

This time, at least, different approach worked out very well.

Cuckold massage

Out of curiosity, I Googled "cuckold massage" without really expecting to find anything specific. Imagine my surprise when a search result came back for a website in the UK offering cuckold massages! This amazing service has a Cuckold Corner section of its website dedicated to the interests and concerns of cuckolding couples!

A cuckold massage is a perfect way for couples fantasizing about cuckolding to take their fantasy into reality. How I wish there was such a service like this one close to me for sometimes finding a playmate, especially on the spur of the moment, isn't always easy to do. I'll be sure to pay a visit on our next visit to the UK!

I sent an email to the proprietor of Tranquility Massage and this is what he wrote to me about the cuckold massage he offers:

"I started offering my cuckold massages after being approached by one of my male clients with the question "Would you massage my wife while I watch?"

It occurred to me, that there was probably a niche for couples who were looking to explore their fantasies without going down the route of dating sites, random "Bull" ads and friends.

So, I started to offer my cuckold massage. It's proved to be very popular, I think mainly because the wife does get a full body massage where she can just enjoy being pampered or, should the mood take her, indulge further.

My clients are usually more mature, shy, nervous and concerned about safety, discretion, limits etc and I feel that I consider all of these. It allows the wife to explore and enjoy herself with hubby present, so they both know what is happening, who with etc. I think also that, as they are paying for the "service", they have a sense of "control" over how things go.

Clients are able in advance to let me know how they'd like things to go, what levels of interaction they are happy with etc. Not all massages end in sex. Some are just sensual massages where the wife is brought to orgasm by me in front of hubby, others are more interactive and some couples see me many times, each time being more adventurous as they feel more comfortable.

For some, there are "physical" issues on the part of the husband/partner and they wish to let their wife enjoy a sexual experience without the fear of an affair or rejection etc. I consider this to be a very open-minded and loving approach and always do my best to provide the kind of experience that each couple needs and wants to keep their relationship healthy.

On a flip-side, I do have some couples where the wife watches as hubby receives a sensual massage from me and she can watch him interacting with another man.

All my clients are nice, genuine and friendly people who just want to explore their fantasies. For the majority, a visit to me is their first-time at crossing the very thin line from fantasy to reality....a big step for most that tests emotions, loyalty and their feelings towards each other.

Dean"

You can find out more at: http://www.tranquilitymassage.co.uk/Couples/couples_003.htm

Cuckolding and nude yoga

Bringing the sensuality of being naked into the already sensual and spiritual world of yoga seems to me to be a natural thing to do. It is something I practice on my own and I also do this with two men who are lovers. Once a week they will come over, or I will go to them, for some intense yoga that we do in the nude followed by an equally intense sexual encounter.

Yoga is not a cuckolding activity on its own but bringing the practice into your cuckolding can be rewarding and very beneficial.

Cuckolding

I came to the cuckolding lifestyle late in the game and have now written a book about my conversion and how I live this lifestyle with Michael. What I've found is that the fantasy of cuckolding remains as potent as the reality and the reality of living this lifestyle feeds even more fantasy. It is a heady cocktail with many subtleties and variations.

I didn't expect my book to be read by more than a handful of people so it has been surprising and gratifying that so many women have bought the book and made contact with me to ask questions and discuss how to introduce the subjects to their husbands or boyfriends. My usual answer is to suggest that they give their man my book to read. Following that, an affectionate talk about the hows and whys of the lifestyle is in order.

However, I don't have all the answers and there are times when it seems impossible to pull off a cuckolding evening. Craig's List candidates can be unreliable or perhaps they have too many takes on a given evening. It is understandable that they are in demand given the photos they post in their ads. Going commando and trying to recruit a sexy guy at a bar is fraught with its own problems but we've had great success with it occasionally. Sometimes Michael and I have a good laugh at our washouts and I have to ask, "Who do I have to fuck around here to get fucked?!"

In spite of the obstacles, I love the lifestyle and it always amazes me to realize that the man of my life is as concerned as I am about making sure I find great men to have sex with me. Isn't that the best?

Cuckold Talk Part 6

Cuckolding Lifestyle is back

Cuckolding Lifestyle is back and we will rebuild this resource: http://cucklifestyle.blogspot.com/

Devotional Sex

This comment was received from a reader:

"Caroline, have you read about Devotional Sex? It's a very cool mix of soft femdom where the male doesn't get so denied and it's so romantic. I'm not mentioning this as a substitute of cuckolding, of course ;)"

I have been following the Devotional Sex blog on Tumblr and enjoy the posts and thoughts I read there. The photo above and the post below is from that blog which, I think, goes very well with cuckolding. Let me know of you agree.

Living Tantra:

When living Devotional Sex it becomes normal that most erections don’t lead to ejaculation.
So when a Knight is asked to pose he isn’t thinking about ejaculation because he knows that this is very unlikely to happen now.

Instead of feeling frustrated about not being allowed to cum the Knight enjoys feeling aroused. He enjoys feeling desire for his Princess. And in this photo it feels good to be naked and aroused in the open air.
Being relaxed and comfortable with enjoying arousal for the feelings of that moment, and not thinking that it must lead to release, is very Tantric.

So even though there are no Tantric ceremonies or breathing exercises, Devotional Sex moments such as in this photo can be said to be living Tantra.

http://devotionalsex.tumblr.com/